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Every visible task and invisible mental load — who carries what. The full picture, on paper. No more guessing.
For each responsibility: Keep it, Transfer it, or Share it. A concrete plan — not just a feeling that something needs to change.
Three word-for-word options: casual, direct, and email. You don't have to figure out what to say. You just follow the script.
The invisible load is one layer. The conflict loop underneath it — the same fight that keeps happening no matter what you try — that's what the full CLEAR methodology is built to break. With or without your partner's participation.